My boyfriend is still using dating websites
I would like to ask my fellow female how they would feel if they discovered their boyfriend of 6 months had just signed up to a dating site, and had upgraded to full membership by spending 79 pounds (130 dollars) for full access. I discovered this because he forgot to log out of his e-mails and I know I shouldn't have, but temptation took over. We lived together for two and half of these but the last two years we've been living apart after a brief separation but are trying to make things work.The reason for the separation was that one day when I was cleaning his email inbox for him I discovered emails between him and another man.Find out my thoughts on the ability to “check up on” on your partner by clicking here: If you’re serious about finding love and want to learn my insights into the tricky world of online dating, check out my CD set Finding the One Online to change your life forever!I haven’t, but I don’t harshly judge people that have because I understand why they would.To me, whether it's a man or a woman he's cheating with is largely irrelevant here, it's the serial and repeated nature of his cheating and his lack or remorse which is the concern.
Did you feel you SHOULD continue to date other people because they were still active?You can forgive it once, but once you forgive it twice you are condoning a pattern of behavior. You need to make a clean break and stop the life support this relationship is being sustained on.In his mind he's got away with it twice, so why stop there? If he wants to sleep around that's perfectly fine - but you're not going to sacrifice your self respect while he does it.He has told me about some of them and still hears from many of them. Whenever I have to go to a social function, it shows that he has been on reviewing matches sent to him.Since we have dated for almost two years, I asked him to cancel his online dating account. I told him it was upsetting and we had a little verbal disagreement. But your relationship does suggest a level of patience and tolerance that far exceeds the norm. Imagine a company that lets its CEO cook the books and embezzle from them because he’s a smart, charismatic guy.