Handsome guy dating ugly girl
Ultimately it was hard because other people made it hard.
For Harriet*, the mathematically good looks of the model she'd discovered on a dating site (and had had a crush on since she was a teen) couldn't make up for his "mental and unpredictable" behaviour which first reared its head when he left her eight drunken missed calls - after their first date.
Less attractive people are often judged harshly and struggle to attract the people they want.
The people society deem as attractive get more job opportunities, shorter criminal sentences, and more passive interest from others.
Basically while men are looking for that mathematical hotness, women have more scales and rankings beyond appearance."[As a result] they are much harder to predict.
You can try to ignore it or choose to be voluntarily celibate, but I’ve just never seen that be a viable long-term solution.
(That is, which women they send a message to.) Their findings: All people, but especially guys, spend a disproportionate amount of energy searching for, browsing, and messaging our hottest users.
As I’ve noted before, a hot woman receives roughly 4× the messages an average-looking woman gets, and 25× as many as an ugly one.
A lack of human connection causes constant suffering. It makes you bitter, resentful, angry, and even violent towards others or yourself. I’ve personally watched countless ugly men attract women that society deems beautiful. Men who were previously 50 or even 100 pounds overweight.
Or guys who were born with asymmetrical faces, bad skin, wide-spaced eyes, genes that made them bald in their 20s, and the dreaded weak chins.