Adult sex and date app
Hubby and I found that reading stories privately, then sending each other links to the ones that turned us on was hot.And more than that, it gave us a whole new way to communicate our desires.Using a fertility tracker allows you to not only be extra careful with your contraception, but also plan trips and date nights around the times you’ll be most turned on. I tracked my period for a few months (the app requires a few cycles' worth of data to get super accurate), then planned a romantic weekend away with my husband—something we try to do a couple of times a year—for when I was ovulating.In the past on vacation I've put pressure on myself to want sex all the time—something to do with paying for the hotel room, I think.I’ve been with my husband for almost five years, and while I still get butterflies when I see his name pop up on my phone, let’s be really honest: Long-term sex doesn’t elicit that same instantaneous, gotta-have-'em-right-now excitement that sex with a new partner does.It's comfortable, fun—it can even be adventurous—but in long-term relationships, consistently great sex takes work.A lot of mainstream porn is graphic, and unless you pay for porn from a reputable site, like XConfessions (from feminist pornographer Erika Lust), it’s hard to know whether or not the people in it were exploited. The Sex Stories app gives you access to all sorts of exciting, sexually-charged tales from writers around the world.
While planning sex might not that exciting, a woman looks most attractive (from an objective, evolutionary perspective) and feels horniest around the time that she ovulates (regardless of whether or not you want kids, nature is pulling for you to have them).
It’s competitive, which is always fun, and you learn about your person's innermost desires with questions like, "Do you prefer your partner clean-shaven, or with stubble?
" and "Which look is hottest: School Girl, Business Woman, Teacher, or Biker Chick?
” After half-a-decade of romantic bliss, I thought I was done with surprises about my husband. Turns out, he’s more interested in me wearing pigtails than I realized, and he didn’t know how much I love his second-day stubble.
For anyone who feels a little shy about admitting what they want in the bedroom (which is perfectly normal), doing so from behind a screen can be easier than saying it out loud.