40 year old woman dating 18 year old
I'm 29 and the thought of dating an 18 year old (a child in my eyes) is not appealing.However trying to warn teenagers about anything is usually futile.But this is a woman who should bloody well know better. Best OP can do is make sure their son knows how to look after his heart.Yeah, OP's son is only barely closer in age to the woman than her son.The relationship provided each of us with what we wanted at the time. Sometimes you have to let people make mistakes so they can learn. Not sure what I'm trying to say really...that for them it was real and they had a good life together for a time.And may be this is one of those mistakes, or maybe it's not. As long as you keep the lines of communication open with your son and keep a good relationship with both him and her, then you will be well placed to observe and support your son if needed.They were honestly soulmates who clicked on many levels--they've been happily married for about 6-7 years now (waited until he was done school/got a job) and have a daughter together.We all thought it was the weirdest thing ever, but it worked good for them Not quite the same age difference, but met my husband when he was 24 and I was 18 (and a virgin). Sometimes I tease him about dating an 18 year old, but we're in our 30s now and the age difference doesn't really make a difference.
Also seeing his teenage boy room might wake her up). Worst case scenario if you get to know her is that you have a good relationship with someone important to your son and you can be there when needed. If that's so, he may "outgrow" her, if it doesn't end for some other reason, as he matures.My son is 18 and has been seeing a 31 year old woman for the past four months. She also has a 4 year old son who she has introduced to my son.I expected that considering the huge age gap it would burn out pretty fast, but the relationship seems to be progressing.May-December is fine..it usually happens once both partners can be considered competent, independent adults.I'd be very worried that this woman is just using him as a pool boy, so to speak. I wouldn't want him to get blindsided, though.